Just to be clear, the point is to discuss and politely argue about these points. They aren't commandments or top down lecturing, just things people notice that seem off.
1) Nature of Infinity: Alright, this is the big one, so I figure we might as well mention it first:
Infinite numbers of beings fighting over infinite spaces doesn't make sense from a logical perspective.
Infinite elemental planes means no elemental should be worried about resource depletion.
I usually don't worry about this, but I remember on the WotC boards the solution to avoiding a lot of logical flaws was to say the planes are infinitely expanding, rather than outright infinite.
The other thing to note, because it's a fantasy, is that wars and stealing minerals can change the nature of the infinite. So it's not the missing gold that's the problem it's the corrosion of what Elemental Earth is that matters.
2) Our world is the center of all things: This is a problem when you have infinite planes filled with infinite beings competing over a finite space. Worse when you state that all the planars know how important this single world is.
Why would exemplars bother fighting anywhere but the mortal world on which creation rests?
I understand the world may be hard to access, but the problem is there's little point in doing much else but figuring out a way to influence this one world.
Maybe it's more like an Excel file. You can scroll downward infinitely, but it takes longer and longer to go down, and it's always easy to go back up to the top. That would keep all the activity more or less localized in the main areas, but you could always push deeper.