It seems to me that several of the Outer Planes, in addition to their allignment traits, have a secondary theme that is largely neutral and only indirectly related to the plane's allignment. The most blatant example of this is the Gray Wastes. In addition to being the Neutral Evil plane, The Gray Wastes is also the home of several Powers of Death that shouldn't neccessarily be called Evil. Three examples of real world Death Deities that keep their Realms their are Hel, Hades, and Arawn. These shouldn't be stereotyped as Evil, just because people think Death is icky. These Deities basically watch over the souls of the dead that aren't picked out as special by the other gods of their pantheons.
So that means that the Gray Wastes has a second nature dealing with Death. I've tried to figure out what the theme's are of the others that aren't allignment based; some were easy, others were not. Here's what I have so far:
Abyss: ?
Acheron: Militaristic Warfare
Arboria: ?
Arcadia: ?
Baator:?
Beastlands: Wilderness
Bytopia: Simplicity? Domestication?
Carceri: Impersonment/Banishment
Elysium: ?
Gehenna: Struggle
Gray Wastes: Death
Limbo: Will
Mechanus: Technology
Mount Celestia: ?
Outlands: Mundanity?
Pandaemonium: Madness
Ysgard: Heroic Warfare
Any ideas on how to fill this list out?
I think of the "theme-thing" just the same way. I'd add Happyness to Elysium (quite obvious, indeed). Acheron feels like "pointless warfare and struggle just for the sake of it" than militaristic. The Outlands, though, don't seem to have any specific theme. It's kinda indifferent to it's inhabitands (except for suppresing magical and psionic power).